im really bored which would explain why im back here writing so anyway theres this one part from the first post that 'm going to refine and edit.

how you can tell a girl likes you :
1.she'll do anything she can to be around you. even if it means hanging out with your lame friends.
2.she may not talk to you all the time because she's afraid she might say something stupid. so dont think of this as her not liking you it's merely becaue shes's nervous. or she may talk to you a lot if she's the talkative type.  
3.she'll try to find out everything about you.not in a stalkerish way.
4.she'll mention you A LOT to her friends.
5.she'll start taking in interests that you are interested in. for example:
-music you like. that's a huge sign.  
-sports / other hobbies you are interested in.
6.she'll laugh at your jokes even if they're not necessarily funny. :)
7.she'll try to look amazing every time you're near
8.she'll sneak glances at you wheter it be in class, the hallways, anywhere!
9.she'll bug you just so she knows she has your attention.
10.she'll sit with you at lunch, if she has your lunch. if she does have your lunch she'll try to sit beside you, near you or somewhere remotely close that she can hear what your saying.
11.she'll invite you to places whether it be to the movies, the mall, anyplace just so that she can see you that much longer.
12.she'll grab your arm, hold it whatever. or touch you NO NOT IN A PERVERTED WAY!
13.she'll ask you to do things for her. thats a maybe though. LOL.
14.she'll call you/msn you whatever.
15.you'll JUST KNOW. we make it pretty obvious so yeah. you can tell if a girl likes your or not. for references to tell if she doesnt like you at all read the oldest post.

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how to get over a guy- by:samantha L

firstly analyze what type of relationship you had with the guy you are trying to get over and then choose the right instructions from there.

if it was just a crush read below if not keep scrolling  :
1.DO NOT HATE THE GUY. its not his fault or your fault. things just dont happen sometimes.
2.DONT PANIC. there will be other guys along the way you just have to be patient. i know waiting isnt exactly fun or very interesting but once the right guy comes along you'll be so hapyy :)  and it will totally be worth the wait.
3.THINK OF HOT CELEBRITIES. hey just cuz you can never have them doesn't mean that they cant make you happy. just look at one hot guy and you'll be happy unless it was an intensely deep crush. but still the hot guy will make you smile even if it was intense. look at a picture of one of the following for example : chad michael murray, adam brody,  or jared padalecki. either of the three are very good cadidates to get over your guy.
4.GO TO THE MALL with your friends and you can just walk around there. shopping makes any girl happy :) plus look at it this way you can see all the hot guys at the mall too :) and if you're interested in skaters for example then you can go to your local skating park to check out the hot guys there. how awesome is that? ;D
5.DO YOGA. its very therapeutic and it can help calm your emotions. breathe in breathe out...
6.PLAY A SPORT. it will take out all your fustration on a ball or puck or whatever sport you play. you take out all that fustration without hurting anyone! well unless of course the ball or puck hits someone...
7.OTHER CUTE GUYS. did you have a backup crush? cause if you did it is now time for you to start crushing on him.
8.LASTLY maybe you guys were better off friends so look at it that way! things couldve been worse right?

if he was your boyfriend or something along those lines:
1.CRY YOUR EYES OUT. it will make you feel better even if you look like crap but who cares anyway? when girls have a bad day its okay to look like a mess once in a while just make sure you dont ALWAYS look like a mess.
2.LET GO. yes you really have to let go. if you dont how else is the next guy going to come along? if you let go things will be easier. so how do you let go you might ask?
here are some examples on how you can let go:
-dont listen to songs that remind you of him
-dont watch sappy chick flicks cuz you'll wish you were the girl in the movie
-dont read sappy books because once again you will wish you are in the girls position unless of curse its a tragic love story then you'll just want to cry your eyes out.
3.if you keep a diary DONT READ OLD ENTRIES!!! this is highly important seeing that if you read your old entries you will miss the memories of what was and youll just bawl your eyes out and the letting go process will never begin if you keep reading old entries.
4.DONT BE PESSIMISTIC and crap like that. gosh what does pessimism even do anyway? make you feel worse?! i dont think you want to feel worse now do you? LOOK ON THE SUNNY SIDE. (: cheer up and smile! nothings going to happen if you keep acting all sad! besides you dont want your ex seeing you see sad. you have to at least act like you're happier without him even if you really arent! if you stop being pessimstic who knows what could happen? ;D go with the flow and let things fall in place. i mean everything happens for a reason right?
5.PLAY A SPORT. as metioned above. it really does help you get rid of all your fustration and itll keep you fit! :) its a two in one how great is that? try boxing or something like that. gym girlies- remember self defense? LOL. omgsh. good times :)
6.HAVE A HUGE PIG OUT. it will make you happy. but dont eat too much or else you'll puke. you could even bake things that  you like for example: cookies. brownies! brownies really help nice and chewy and fudgy yummy :9
7.HANG OUT WITH THE GIRLIES. do anything with your best girls cuz they can make you smile till your face hurts. "studies show that spending time with girlfriends decrease stress and may help you live longer" from some magazine not exactly sure which one but spending time with the girls will make you happy and its like quality time that you lost when you were in your relationship. have a girls day out or just stay in. DO ANYTHING!
8.WHEN ALL ELSE FAILS...TRY TRY AGAIN! its a lame saying but highly true. think about it if at first you cant get over him try try again! and you will eventually even if it does take a while. some girls take longer than others and thats okay. just make sure you arent hung up on him too long. once it exceeds a year then there might be some issues.
9.do not have too high of hopes for your relationship to rekindle because most often girls do not get back with their ex's. its just time to move on especially when he likes another girl.

WHY YOU'RE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM ANYWAY!
-there's probably a cute guy out there who likes you but couldnt tell you cuz you were dating the big loser
-he probably has some gross disgusting habit you have no idea about or do know about and didnt have the heart to tell him how gross it was
-hes perverted and horny. not like we can change that. all guys are unless they havent hit puberty yet. LOL.
-he has some flaw about him that you dont know about.
-there are other cuter guys that you havent met yet. dont be sad over this one guy!
-once you talk to him after the breakup youll realize he has something wrong with him and its better off that you broke up.

AND FINALLLY...
its probably best that you do not talk to the guy for a bit just so emotions settle over. unless he was your friend then talk to him again just dont get too emotional and bawl your eyes out in front of him. its not pretty when girls cry and guys hate it. so dont do it! of course this is going to take w while with all the healing involved but it will be worth it! of course breakign up is hard and letting go is even harder but it will all be worth it in the end!
i hoped this helped. if you have any questions or comments please feel free to leave them. <33 you all for reading this!

i was talking to ada well still am about this topic and gosh i really need to write about it so here it goes.

advice to guys on what to do and what not to do when you like a girl (if any guy reads this LOL) :
1.if you like a girl TELL HER. my gosh. if you don't even have the guts to tell her then what kind of a  guy are YOU? honestly in my opinion if you cant even tell her then you have NO CHANCE AT ALL.
2.girls dont want to be the one to first admit that they like you. so basically youre going to have to do the asking. kay?
3.if at first you dont succeed. DONT GIVE UP. omgsh if you give up it just shows how freaking pathetic you are. EVEN worse if you ask another girl out RIGHT after. that is the gayest thing ever. cuz you never know if the first girl you asked out will like you later on. wait at least a few months.
4.timing is essential. self explanatory.
5.if a girl doesnt like you she'll give you signals. SO TAKE THEM.
here are some examples:
-she blocked you on msn - meaning she wants nothing to do with you
-she avoids you in the halls - she hates you. plain and simple
-she ignores you - doesnt like you!
-she avoids having to go to events that you are attending - just wants to stay away from you as much as possible
-she talks about other guys a lot when your around - to let you know shes not interested
basically if any of the combination of signs are shown SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU. so stop being stupid and let go.
6.if shes holding a crap load of stuff HELP HER. cuz shell love it and think you're really sweet. :) basically if she ever needs help help her.
7.make her laugh she'll really appreciate you even more. dont make up gay jokes or try to be funny if your not cuz she'll just think your annoying and gay.
8.dont get jealous if she talks to other guys. cuz that just shows how un-manly you are. if shes your gf then go over there and hold her hand and if shes not then just watch from a distance.
9.NEVER EVER. i repeat NEVER EVER get your friend or her friend to tell her that you like her. that shows how incapable you are of telling her you like her. it makes you seem less manly and thats not good now is it?
10.if you like her dont flirt with other girls. omgsh. it may seem like such a simple rule yet many guys do not understand it.

what to do if a girl likes you but you dont like her (IMPORTANT) :
1.DO NOT FREAK OUT.
2.don't be an ass and go EW youre ugly when and if she tells you
3.be kind with what you say. girls are emotional so if she starts crying once again DO NOT FREAK OUT.
4.dont give some lame excuse like 'im not ready for a relationship yet' cuz if you go out with another girl well that would be way retarded now wouldnt it?
5.if shes your friend for sure dont say stupid crap cuz you still probably want to be friends right?
6.dont be mean about it when i say this i really honestly mean it. cuz who wants their feelings to be hurt?

things to do when you DO get the girl:
1.be truthful.
2.laugh at her jokes.
3.be thoughtful and caring.
4.do something nice for her once in a while. it wont take a lot of time or money and it wont kill you to be sweet once in a while.
for example:
-hold the door open for her.
-walk her home or to class- that's really sweet. :)
-hold her books for her - she'll think that your really caring. <3
-get her a teddybear or something unless of course she doesnt like teddybears. - its a sweet thing to do
-get her jewellry - cuz i like it LOL. no im kidding. a necklace ; ring ; bracelet; earrings. it doesnt matter how much it cost it could be a quarter for all she cares. its not the price taht counts she'll just love that you got her something.
-play her a song if you play an instrument - guitarist for sure cuz girls are suckers for guitar players :)
-compile a cd of songs that mean a lot to your relationship or a mix of songs you like - it will mean a lot to her
-a single rose. she doesnt need a whole freaking bouqet especially if shes really short.
-piggy back her. =)  
-hold her when shes with you. especially when your with other people
-sing her a song even if you suck at singing.
5.make sure if and when you introduce her to your friends that you introduce her as your girlfriend or shell be pissed.
6.tease her sometimes but not about her weight cuz she might wanna strangle you.
7.hold her close.
8.make sure you hold her hand.
9.tell her when she does something cute whether it be a facial expression she does or something she said.
10.DO NOT COMPARE HER TO OTHER GIRLs unless your telling her how amazing she is.
11.dont talk to your friends about whether you made out or not cuz thats just retarded.
12.protect her from harsh words and people.
13.help her with her homework especially if your really good at soemthing and she isnt.
14.LISTEN TO HER.
15.if she pms's dont freak out and get all spazzy.
16.DONT BE TOO CLINGY. because that can get really annoying.
17.if you get into an arguement be the one to say sorry first. it'll show that you arent dense.


yes that is my advice for guys. it's all very true. its from experience and other peoplee's relationships/problems. if you follow through with what i said above then you'll get the girl :)
im sure there are other things im missing.if theres anything you would like to see added please comment.
GOOD LUCK ! <3

all written by me. COPY AND DIE. dont be a frigging retarded biter! quote your references if you use my ideas.ask me for my email and add me online if you have any further questions cuz i really like helping other people with their problems and issues because one day i may want to be a psychologist and this will totally help if you have any questions comments or concerns. that's all now BYE  <3

sometimes we really regret things and its just that we can't even do anything about it. everything has changed and nothing is the same again. at other times we find ourselves making the dumbest decisions ever.they may seem stupid to us but maybe there's a deeper meaning into why we made that decision in the first place. we all have our regrets but if we can't fix it there's no point in fretting over it. there's always going to be something that we want to go back in time to fix or relive just because it was one of the happiest moments in our lives but people change and things won't be the same again and all that's left is the memories of what was.sometimes things just don't work out for good people. people who seem right for one another won't always necessarily be together. things don't work out just because we want them to. we have to work hard and strive for what we want but sometimes it's too difficult to do that and we just take the easy way out by giving up. if you really want something you won't just let go because you know it's what you want and if you really want soemthing you'd do anything to get it.we have to accept change as it is. there will be other chances in life. regretting and wondering won't do us any good so getting over it may be the best way out. you have to let things go in order to see other things in life. open up and who knows what will happen.  everything happens for a reason whether it be bad or good.
Some things are not meant to last, they just take a place in your heart and make you smarter the next time
--Alex & Emma